In Seventh Heaven

It would take time to build trust. Trust is afterall earned. And for a relationship that is still brand-new, it’s very hard to deal with certain things especially if both of you are miles apart. It is already given i guess to have doubts and all. But as much as i want to get it out of my system, it is just so difficult for me. I’m trying my best to think of positive thoughts all the time though but my being pessimistic still gets in the way. I know it’s not good and if i continue to be like this, then most probably, this relationship i’m having right now won’t work out. Nobody wants a to have blooming relationship to just take a halt like that. But everything is not just easy. Hope i would be able to surpass all the trials that i’ll go through and actually going through right now. It’s really hard but i’ll do my best to make things work.

Yep, you’ve read it right. I guess you already have an idea of what i am talking about. My lovelife, no less. I’ve finally found him and he came as a surprise. He’s simply my “ideal” man…patient, kind and mature. Before i accepted him in my life, i’ve given it so much thought first because it’s something that is so important to me and that i won’t end up having regrets later. I’m just hoping and praying though that this is already it and no more tears for me this time.

I was at the mall with my girlfriend the other day just to have snack and of course, the never-ending chitchat. We both decided to have our snack at KFC and we took a seat near the entrance where people passing by along the hallway are very visible to us. It wasn’t in our plan to sit there. It was just the nearest seat from the counter so that’s it.

Anyways, it was payday so the mall was kind of jampacked but what caught our attention were the pairs or should i say lovers who passes by. My friend has been separated for a while and i’ve been single for a while now too, so we’re like, “how i wish we have our pair too.” We kept laughing on the thought. Well, it feels good having someone around who would keep you company not to mention, someone with whom you will share just about anything about your life. Sigh! That’s all we can do…sigh…(“,)

From dear Sheng. Thanks a lot!

We need friends for many reasons,
all throughout the season.
We need friends to comfort us
when we are sad,
and to have fun with us when we are glad.

We need friends to give us good advice,
We need someone we can count on,
and treat us nice.

We need friends to remember us
one we have passed
sharing memories that will always last.

I want to share this to all my blogosphere friends. Grab this guys. This is for you!

Everyone of us, i believe so has this “dream” or “ideal” guy, so to speak. Though we don’t usually end up with those guys, but still it remains there. Most women do still have those qualifications for the guy they want to be with and i am not an exception. I do have my qualifications though i always end up forgetting all about it whenever i fall. You know what i mean. I do consider physical appearance first and foremost but i usually forgot about it as soon as i get to talk to the guy and discover his wit and humor. It does weigh much heavier as compared to the looks for me. I would want my guy to be smart. Intellectually stimulating as others would say it. I love it when i learn a lot from a guy. I can be immature at times and i would love my guy to be mature enough for me too. Those are just some of my weaknesses when it comes to my man. And i can say, those traits would definitely leave me head over heels. (“,)

Have you been in that situation wherein you were waiting for a certain thing so badly yet you end up disappointed? And when the time comes that you don’t think of those things anymore, they’ll just pop up from nowhere? Things really come when you least expect them to. This just happened to me recently. All the while i thought it’s done but much to my surprise, it’s not yet. Shocking but amusing at the same time. Life can really be ironic at times and full of surprises too. (“,)

An award from Sheng. Thanks dear for being so sweet.